One of the most important secrets to avoid problems with jerks is to make sure you don’t become one of them.

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The Fundamental Attribution Error.

No One Does Harm Willingly

Other people act out of their appreciation of what is best. You may not agree with their decision, but you do need to accept that they are doing the best they can with their information. If you don’t agree with their decision, it may be because you don’t know their situation.

Right, Wrong, and Slightly Less Wrong

People Act From the Knowledge They Have

Don’t Respond in Kind.

Be Tolerant of Other and Strict with Yourself

How to Avoid the Fundamental Attribution Error in Daily Life

Become aware.

Don’t take it personally.

Don’t make assumptions.

Look for good qualities in the other person.

Become more aware of yourself.

Don’t cut yourself slack.

Back to My Story.

Conclusion

Published in Better Advice on Medium.com

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